no .... I think it'll be happiness ..... and completeness ....
i have this vision of bringing my kids to fish at a jetty
somewhere by the sea, 5 of us sitting in a row, ranged from the
biggest to the smallest, swinging out legs .....
and the kids waking me and dearling up in the morning by jumping
onto the bed ... 
wah lau ..... don't spoil it for me mah ...... won't it be more
fun for you guys to be able to gloat at me a decade down the line
when I'm the harried, stressed out dad you guys predict I'll become
? ... 
Sorry fat-fat.... I don't mean to spoil your dream/vision.
I'm just looking at a more realistic view. It's getting
harder and harder for family to raise kids. To do so, we will
have to work even harder, so how much time do we really get to
spend with the kids?
